Woman Doesn’t Get Support With Two Kids Even After Surgery, Breaks Down
Being rushed to the hospital and undergoing emergency surgery can be a scary ordeal. It really helps if you have a good support structure to step in and sort out anything you’re unable to. Especially if you are a parent.
When one woman found herself in the operating theater recently, the last thing she expected was for her mother-in-law to make her life even harder. But instead of empathy or an offer to assist with the kids, the MIL responded with, “I’m glad that happened.” The woman, who doesn’t have parents of her own, says her in-laws are “mad” that she isn’t able to care for her children during this time.
She expected words of sympathy and support when she suddenly had to have emergency surgery
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Instead, she was met with coldness and anger from her in-laws
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How to find your village when raising a child…
It’s said that it takes a village to raise a child. And it can be nearly impossible to do it without some level of support, even on the best of days.
“Getting support is good for you and good for your child,” notes the Raising Children Network site. “That’s because it helps you look after yourself and give your child what they need to grow and thrive.”
Support isn’t just about someone to babysit if or when needed. According to the site, there are three main types of support that parents, especially single parents, need. These includepractical support that helps you to manage new or complex tasks or lighten your workload,emotional or personal support to boost your confidence, mental health, and wellbeing. And support in the form ofinformation or advice, to help you with parenting and decision-making.
As a parent, one of the best things you can do is ask for help if you need it, and say yes when it’s offered. “People like to help, and they’re usually glad if you ask them to do something specific,” say the experts at Raising Children Network.
Some parents feel isolated and alone, and believe there’s nobody to support them. But often, it just takes some creative thinking to realize that’s not always the case.
Firstly, your friends might be more willing than you think. “Support from friends can sometimes be less complicated and emotional than support from family,” notes the parenting site.
If you don’t have friends to step in, you could consider turning to your local communities. There might be people from a child care center, school, local club, religious group, or support group that can help you through the hard times.
Work colleagues, or people you meet studying or training, are also an option when it comes to a support network. This doesn’t mean you should leave your kids with someone you just met. But rather, don’t be afraid to reach out to them for a chat or vent, to help take your mind off parenting for a while. There may be practical things they can assist with, too.
Counselors or other professionals can offer a safe, neutral place to explore your situation and help you come up with solutions and strategies, suggests the site. It adds that telephone helplines or online counseling might be good if you need to spend a lot of time at home, or just need someone to listen sometimes.
The experts advise surrounding yourself with trustworthy, encouraging, and reliable people who support your dreams, hopes, and goals.
“And if there are some critical, unhelpful or even hostile people in your life, it might be good to keep them at a distance,” adds the network.
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Loads of people showered the woman with support, and some had similar stories of their own
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